We get that this is challenging!

We have years of experience working with couples who are feeling "stuck" and unhappy. You may be looking here because you are wondering if anything could help.

Many of our clients tell us they are thinking something like these quotes below. Are you?

  • "I feel like I don't know my husband anymore; we're not connecting." 
  • "I don't know if counseling will even help. I don't think he'll ever change." 
  • "I don't know what more she wants from me." 
  • "She isn't affectionate anymore." 
  • "He spends all of his time on the computer." 
  • "She focuses on the kids and I don't matter anymore." 
  • "I feel terrible when we fight in front of the kids."
  • "I never thought he'd have an affair." 

And finally: "This is my last ditch effort: Maybe he will listen to a therapist!"

You don't have to live unhappily, unsatisfied and resentful in your relationship. Change is possible, and we've seen many transformations. We have years of experience and can assess what is really going wrong, and tools and ideas to strengthen and heal your partnership. 

When you come in to see us, you will find we support both partners in bringing their best self to the relationship, to reconnect, or to make a healthy change. Above all, we respect you both and focus on what you are looking for, within a safe relationship!

 Sometimes one partner isn't willing to come in, and you wish they would. You are welcome to come in and see how ideas and changes in you will create changes in your relationship. Ideally, you both come. Yet don't give up hope if the other isn't willing right now. You and your well-being are important; you are more than your couple relationship and deserve support and guidance yourself.

We are dedicated to promoting safe relationships. If you ever feel scared, threatened, or have been hurt, we can help you sort out the confusion and clarify your path.